Can Guys and Girls “Just be Friends”?

Interesting. I always felt like I could hang with guys and have it not be weird. But I have to admit, it is weird. While I LOVE my guy friends, at some point (usually years later…thinking back to college) I am the fool because one or more of them admit to having had a crush on me.
Awkward.
I also feel like you get a pass if you’re both married or both in serious relationships because then, at least for mature adults with self control, you know better than to cross boundaries. Anyway, take a gander…

The Fickle Heartbeat

justfriends

Shared by zombiedrew2

A buddy of mine (who happens to be married) recently came across an old girlfriend, and they ended up going for lunch and catching up on each other’s lives. He mentioned this to me because they ended up exchanging numbers and talked about getting together again, and he wasn’t sure if it was a good idea. Especially because he enjoyed seeing her, and it brought back happy memories of the times they shared.

For anyone who’s a regular reader on thezombieshuffle.com, I’m pretty sure you can guess my advice. Umm, did I mention that he’s married? Yeah, he is. From talking to people, and reading assorted relationship books and blogs I know his situation is far from unique. I’ve touched on thoughts on straying when your relationship is in a rut and on affairs before. But I thought this story provided me with an opportunity to…

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